Family Day 2019. Not just a colleague.

I was part of the team to organize our clinics family day. It was recently held at Pantai Puteri Melaka on the 6th of April 2019. We had a great time despite the initial hurdles but it was an astounding learning curve for myself when it comes to managing an event.

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Pre-event

1. We cannot please everybody. We held a balloting system where staff can vote for the events that they would have the highest possibility of joining. It was a choice between going to the beach. a masquerade dinner party, a trip to Singapore and a vacation at Sunway Lagoon. The beach activity won with a majority of 50 votes.

2. Malaysians are very selective in choosing what to spend their money on. Frugal would be a kinder description.  They seek fun activities but is only willing to part with as little money as possible. We ended up charging a family  for RM50 . Therefore if someone comes alone, he or she will be charged RM50 and if let’s say a family decides to bring like all 7 children  with them it was still be RM50.

3. Sponsorship is vital if you want that little extra. We had a few people bringing cakes, drinking water. I personally assembled the kids swag bags which included the farmfresh kurma milk carton, a piece of chocolate, a bubble toy and a fan.

During event

1. It is a very important to identify the master of coordination. Technically that would be someone who would be a few steps in front of the lot. The one who could predict and manage the future accordingly. This will ensure the smooth flow of the event. We did not really identify one so we had problems during the prize giving ceremony.

2. Respect and try to fulfill the objectives of having a family day . It would be a shame to just sit with your usual cliques and not open to making new friendship. It is an opportunity to ask that man or woman behind the registrations desk, or those hiding in the lab about their hobbies, families and what not.

3. Remember the young and the frail. Some people would bring their elderly parents. Others may bring their very little munchkins. Hence it is thoughtful to provide activities for these special group of people who may not be able to participate in the usual Sukaneka.

Post event

1. To always remember my thank you and words of encouragement to those who participated and make things happen. Hard work, grit and enthusiasm must be acknowledged so that these people would not stay away from volunteering and that they will be happy to continue contributing.

2. A postmortem so that we could locate problems and address them accordingly for better planning in the future.

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This time we had one month to prepare. I was honored to be given the task to find goodies worth RM 10 for our staff. I chose this really cute wrap around towel from Shopee and had it delivered to my brother. I then took it onto myself to take care of the embroidery bill. Furthermore, we had a really low budget.

PERSONAL GAINS

What I personally gained from the experience was to be able to see my colleagues as someone else behind the uniform and the title that they have. It is because at work, a gardener may just be a gardener, but once we’ve met their families, trust me, you would have a different perception of their existence. When you see someone as a grandfather  to somebody instead of just the driver (for example) – you would kind of treat them more compassionately. InsyaAllah.

I am also more careful in trusting a negatively vibed story. Eventhough I put on my listening face, I know better to only take in these news/gossip with a pinch of salt. Throughout my weeks involved in this project, I find that there are a lot of hearsays and once you actually take the extra mile to confirm the story – you find that the negative aspect of it is not that bad. Sometimes it is just a matter of communication/ interpretation.

Finally, I learnt that as an adult, you could still forge new relationships. Make new friends. Adopt new kids. lol. And care for any stranger like a loved one.

 

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Danials Graduation Day. A Kabhi Kushi Kabhi Gham day.

Today was a day of Cerekarama crossing with Hindustan. In short, lotsa drama happened with regards to my younger brother’s graduation ceremony. Without divulging TMI, lets just say it started when nobody in our family knew that he was to receive his scroll today.

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Danial did not inform anybody. He did not tell a single soul. And he is not even a social media sort of person. He enjoys Youtube, PS4 and video games. And those graphic stuff he does on his computer. But that was it. So of course, when he suddenly told my mum to get ready for his graduation  – MOther freaked out. Dad got emotionally charged and well… this is where the TMI would come in. I’d have to keep mum. lOl.

Its like ,

HOW COULD YOU KEEP SUCH IMPORTANT INFORMATION LIKE YOUR GRADUATION, ALL TO YOURSELF? SHOULD IT NOT BE EXCITING??

Man.. he could be a priest. People could confess a great sin and he’d probably bring it to his own grave. He could be of value to PDRM’s special branch even. All of us honestly had no idea that he kept such GREAT NEWS and he gave away no clue whatsoever!!

So he definitely deserved a page in my HoboMinci.

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As I was journaling, I was distracted to another topic in my head. Obviously Danial’s actions invited reactions and opinions from some people. Some comments were interesting, some were just damn harsh. yalah.. macam kau sorang je kan ada parenting method yang berjaya. 

I couldn’t help thinking when was the last time I spoke badly of my parents in law or my siblings in law. Or my husbands first degree relatives for example. And that was when I realized that NO, I have never done such thing. Rasanya tak pernah lagi I tell my husband in the face that I hate his relative or family. Or I think they should do better in certain things. Or what they are doing is not welcomed nor appreciated. Belum lagi part nak layan egoentricity and superiority complex masing2. So it’s either hadam or walk away.

Cause you never know if your words would hurt these souls. Kita bukannya nak jumpa hari ni je. For all you know, we are stuck for life or will bump into each other in the future where your circumstances may be less fortunate than how you were. Masa tu, the only thing left to do is for you to eat your words.

While I allow opinions and constructive criticism towards my flesh and blood, there is this very FINE LINE that you don’t cross especially when it starts to become disrespectful and is just mere dissing. Which fine line you may ask?

Tengok, susah kan nak decide fine line tu kat mana? So mulut jangan macam longkang masa nak komen.

Pemeriksaan Perdana Jemaah Haji 2019

This is an initiative by Tabung Haji in collaboration with KKM to ensure that the pilgrims  (jemaahs) are in the best state of health to perform Haj. Primary health centres, hospitals, GPS would nominate a few medical officers to attend a crash course onto the health criterias one has to fulfill prior to flying to Jeddah.

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Most jemaahs would feel nervous attending the medical checkup but I make it a point to inform them that this is merely a stage where we try to detect any health problems and manage it accordingly so that they will be fit to fly and do Haj. And this, we try to achieve within a few months we have prior to the trip. We do not want them to think that we are sabotaging their trips. That is never the intention. In fact, we want them to be at their best.

We just had a big medical checkup event last Saturday. The turnout was about 206 people with a manpower of 11 medical officers and their respective supporting staff. Alhamdulilah, the session did not drag out till late in the evening as it was a Saturday after all.

Thankfully, we are eligible for a day off (at our chosen time) and given RM50 each as  a token of appreciation. lol.

When a patient arrives, they would first register at the counter before going to the next station where they could check their blood group, Hb and glucose levels. Afterwards, their vital signs and measurements would be taken. Then it is a waiting game for them to be called into the examination room. If they pass, they can proceed to take their meninggococcal vaccination in the next room. If they have medical issues to tackle, they would be redirected at the nearest Klinik Kesihatan for a followup review to get a pass for their medical exam.

I would advise prospective jemaahs to being their medical books, medicine and better still their latest blood investigations to the checkup to speed up the process. Especially when some of the patients choose to follow up at their respective private GP. Or buy their own medicine at the pharmacy. We just need to know if there is an acute problem within the last 3 to 6 months that needs further medical attention.

Most of my patients passed the examination leaving just a few to tackle on their high blood pressure and in some, a new diagnosis of diabetes. There were also a few tricky cases especially involving obese and elderly patients as we are divided between thinking of what is best for them and what they want. I have yet to have any clear cut fails but we will see how it is for the next few months. InsyaAllah. 

I am also hopeful to be selected as Allah’s guest one day. InsyaAllah.

The WaterFront Hotel, Kuching

 

For our annual trip balik kampung last year, we decided to try a different hotel than our usual Lime Tree. Hence decided to give The Waterfront Hotel a try. We did not regret our choice.

Ninie being cheeky and refusing to sleep during the flight from KL – KCH.. 

 

I made a booking for two rooms. One for my Minci family and the other for my parents.

The trip was in December. I booked for myself, a Deluxe King room for 5 nights. After tax and a discount of 5% the total price amounted up to RM 1071.40. My son Ee was charged an extra RM15/day for breakfast at the hotel. But it was worth it. The breakfast spread was awesommmmeee.

We rented a car in Kuching which we drove from the airport to the hotel. The hotels parking area is shared with Plaza Merdeka. It’s a wonderful shopping mall attached to the hotel. It took a while to check in because of the high volume of visitors during school holidays. So we passed time taking pictures and kind of explored the mall.

Here are a few points I especially loved about this hotel;

LOCATION

Situated in the heart of the city, it is walking distance to most of the main attractions in the city. We could shop at the nearby Carpenter Street & India Street. Famous for its spices, textiles and local delicacies. If you’re willing to walk a bit further, you would reach the Main Bazaar where most of the souvenirs are sold. A little further, you could reach Top Spot. Tapi jenuhlah nak menapak.

Having Plaza Merdeka as a neighbour which houses most of our favourite fast food joints makes handling cravings for a McD cheeseburger, Gloria latte and Sugarbuns chicken easier with picky eaters. They even have MPH!

SPACIOUS CLEAN ROOMS

What more can I say. Our life is complete when there is a mini fridge to store those Kuching only food we buy at the store.

Housekeeping were on time and very accommodating. I particularly loved the toiletries they used especially the lemon grass like shower gel. It felt fresh.

And did I tell you they have the cutest, cosy swimming pool ever?

BREAKFAST BUFFET

We could actually sit there till 10am. I was too hungry to take pictures of the area. Suffice to say, the selections were delicious and we really enjoyed the Sarawak specials eventhough its just Nasi Aruk for that day. The Sarawak Laksa was the best. I think it is a special on a Sunday. Or was it on a Monday. I’m not quite sure cause they change these special menu daily.

But even so, you still have the star dish daily. That is the NASI LEMAK. LIkeee woowwww.. I had it everyday. And the bread pudding!

You can have your breakfast outside at the terrace too if you wish.

In general, the hospitality offered by the staff was like 10 stars. We couldn’t feel happier.  It is those little things that count you know, like the free shuttle to the nearest masjid for Friday prayers! I look forward for our annual trip this year. Perhaps, if the price is similarly great – we get to experience this first class hospitality all over again. InsyaAllah..